When foresight is 20/20, but you decide not to take action.
A practicing uncle describes a story of how girls used to chase him in college, and how he resisted temptation and needed to get married. This was 30 years ago, and the girls chasing him weren’t American - they were of the same South Asian background as him and were probably fresh off the boat just like he was. Now he sends his daughters to live in college dorms, and wonders why they have gone astray, wear provocative clothing, and are only culturally Muslim?
You had the hindsight, but you didn’t take action. By the time you started taking action, it was too late.
A true story that continues and will continue to repeat itself unless we wake up and invest in our children.