How Shaytan slowly turns you away from Islam.
You move into a new community, and you’re shocked because the Musallah is an open area. Men and women are properly separated, but there is no physical barrier and that makes you uncomfortable because you’re not used to that type of masjid. There should be a physical barrier between men and women!
You homeschool your kids because you know it’s best for them, and you continue to do so while they are young.
Time goes on, and you become more ambitious as a mother and feel the lack of purpose since you’re “only” a homeschooling, stay-at-home mother, sucked in by the other ambitious moms who maybe have two children and find it difficult to raise a family because they can’t put more effort into their family. “Secular education comes first, and two children is more than enough for me!”
Your ambition “for the ummah” makes you send your girls to public school because it will give them more opportunities, and you as well will have more opportunities.
Your girls grow up to go to college, and of course they must have the experience to dorm because they “need that experience.” Just remember these girls are hanging out at 3am, even if it is to study. I remember what that was like, because you would go out and eat, chill, and then study at the wee hours of the morning in someone’s dorm. The girls get used to this type of freedom, and they now have a distorted view of how a woman should behave and how a woman should be when going out and about. I can’t think of any husband who would be OK for their wife to go hang out at 3am with her besties, and this type of “controlling” behavior by the husband will lead to many arguments, all because the women don’t see anything wrong with such behavior because it was normal for them.
Those same girls in dorm rooms of course have non-Muslim roommates, so if they bring over a friend to you know, have sex with, then the best advice you are given by your own mother is to leave the room for awhile, while the roommate is getting pounded.
You go from being a conservative who is shocked by the lack of separation of men and women to essentially turning your daughter homeless in a college campus for a few hours or a whole night, while she is also surrounded by other drunks and horny toads.
A real scenario, not made up.