Even in gay couples, one of the men has to become the mother.

The role of the mother is so important, that even 2 gay fathers need to decide who will be the nurturer, and who will be the breadwinner. Of course, having a gay couple adopting a child is complete injustice to the child and against Islam, but this is the unfortunate system we live in, and within that system, it shouldn’t be a surprise that the man who chooses to be the “mother” would benefit from the hormones a mother produces when having a child, making that person more tuned into the child’s needs and acting as a comforter for the child.

From Being There:

A number of my patients are gay male couples, and one of the first things I ask is which one of them is playing the role of mother. Often, they look at me as if I had three eyes, but in fact the question is an important one. It is preferable when raising a baby to have both a “mother” and “father,” even if the mother is a man. If both parents are more comfortable with “father nurturing,” that is exciting play and encouraging self-reliance, a baby may not get enough “mother nurturing,” or sensitive nurturing and calming care. If two men are going to raise an emotionally healthy child (or children), one of them should take on the nurturing, empathic role. […]

Feldman observed that fathers normally displayed less touching, gazing, and empathic behaviors than mothers. But when they were given oxytocin via a nasal spray, fathers touched their babies and looked into their eyes more; they showed more sensitive parental behavior overall, but their behavior was still more playful and stimulating than it was calming. Not only does Feldman’s research clearly demonstrate the biological differences between the way women and men nurture children, it also offers ways to improve parenting skills to people in diverse family structures.

For instance, in the future, a single father, or a two-father family may be prescribed intranasal oxytocin to improve their sensitive nurturing. These findings also encourage more research on how we can teach fathers to be more sensitive nurturers.

Of course, Big Pharma has to get involved in some way to make more money and promote the lack of a proper 2-parent household.

The point of this post isn’t to say dads can replace mothers with some hormone therapy. The point is the role of the mother, in her true feminine nature, is really a gem that we are losing today, and the only way to keep femininity alive is to teach our children the proper Islamic balance a family provides.